Ready to say 'screw it'? Been there, done that. Can highly recommend.
I'm Melissa — a GenX woman helping other GenX women get out of the same old, same old. Stop counting the days until retirement (if that's even a thing anymore). There's a way to actually live right now, and we're too cool to be drowned out at this point.
so. is this it?
You did everything right. Built the career. Held it together for everyone else. Took on all of it without complaining (well, not too much). And then one day you're in the grocery store mindlessly bopping along to The Cure and it just....hits you. Wait. Is this it? No freakin' way this is it!
That feeling isn't a crisis. It's not burnout. It's not ingratitude. It's you, finally telling yourself the truth.
The restlessness that won't quit
The life that looks completely fine from the outside
The thing you keep almost doing
Having the 'Sunday night dreads'
Done holding your tongue
The quiet rage at being sold a lie
you know the feeling.
yeah. we should to talk.
"The dash between your birth year and death year is where the magic needs to happen. I want to have one helluva dash."
- Melissa, IntentionallyDutch Founder
What are your going to do with your dash?
IntentionallyDutch · on purpose
Work with Melissa
How this works
Every engagement starts with a free 45-minute Discovery Call — no pitch, no pressure, just a conversation.
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Discovery Call
Free · 45 minutes
A conversation. You talk, I listen, we figure out together whether there's something worth exploring. No script. No obligation. You'll leave with something useful either way.
45-minute video call
No obligation — ever
Bold Decision Framework included
1-Month Programme
The Reset
$700 · 4 sessions
Four weekly calls over one month. Clarity on what you want, what's in the way, and a concrete next step you'll actually take. For the woman who wants to explore without a big commitment.
4 × 60-minute weekly calls
Session Summary after every call
Life Audit · 30-Day Intention Tracker
Full client toolkit
3-Month Programme
The Redesign
$1,800 · or 2 x $1,000
Twelve weekly calls over three months plus a Pulse Check at six months. Full support for the woman who's done circling and ready to actually move. Intentionally.
12 × 60-minute weekly calls
Session Summary after every call
Complete toolkit incl. Second Act Blueprint
Pulse Check at 6 months — included
About Melissa
I'm not theorising
about bold moves.
I'm living them.
20+ years in corporate travel management. Three international relocations. Currently mid-move to the Netherlands — with my wife Amy, and our dogs who have no idea what's getting ready to happen but they are seriously gonna love it! I kept my career and built IntentionallyDutch alongside it. I didn't blow everything up.
I expanded.
A conversation. You talk, I listen, we figure out together whether there's something worth exploring. No script. No obligation. You'll leave with something useful either way.
45-minute video call
No obligation — ever
Bold Decision Framework included
Four weekly calls over one month. Clarity on what you want, what's in the way, and a concrete next step you'll actually take. For the woman who wants to explore without a big commitment.
4 × 60-minute weekly calls
Session Summary after every call
Life Audit · 30-Day Intention Tracker
Full client toolkit
Twelve weekly calls over three months plus a Pulse Check at six months. Full support for the woman who's done circling and ready to actually move. Intentionally.
12 × 60-minute weekly calls
Session Summary after every call
Complete toolkit incl. Second Act Blueprint
Pulse Check at 6 months — included